For many illusions it is easy to find owners—people who proudly declare their belief in things such as life after death, human reason, or the self-regulation

A brilliant and thought-provoking examination of the complicated relationship between gay and mainstream culture--and a finalist for the 1998 Lambda Literary Aw

For many illusions, it is easy to find owners – people who proudly declare that they believe in things such as life after death, human reason, and self-regula

(Dover thrift editions).

Argues that the lack of joy in one's daily life is a more serious problem than stress, and suggests five steps for attaining a better and more rewarding balance